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Separation Anxiety: Treating the Cause and Not the Symptoms

My friend Kristin contacted me on Facebook because her parents’ 7-year-old Standard Poodle was showing signs of separation anxiety.  Since Hurricane Sandy, her folks had to relocate and have been living in Florida while their house is being repaired. The dog continuously barks when her parents leave the apartment and the neighbors are now complaining. The situation has become rather urgent. The dog is also showing other symptoms and has pretty much stopped eating.

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Dog causing destruction due to Separation Anxiety

Many times a dog will start showing signs of anxiety (panting, salivating, pacing, barking and whining) as soon as the owners start to prepare to leave the house. The dog recognizes certain “cues” such as picking up the car keys, putting on your jacket, even the owners saying, “Mommy will be right back”. As soon as the owners leave the house, the dog goes into a panic mode and may start barking, becoming destructive and even defecating inside the house. Many behaviorists would suggest desensitizing techniques such as: picking up the car keys and not leaving; putting on your jacket and waiting awhile and then taking it off; leaving for 5 minutes and then returning—gradually increasing the time away. The problem with this technique is that it takes a very long time and in order for it to work, in the beginning the owners can only leave for short periods. Very few people can realistically do this.

The veterinarians will many times prescribe a drug called Clomicalm. There are also more holistic medicines such as Rescue Remedy that you can put in the dog’s water.  Dr. Harvey makes a product called Relax that has shown good results. Natures Vet makes a whole range of holistic calming remedies. One of the best products I have seen recently is the Calming Collar made by Sergeant’s. The Calming Collar has pheromones and lavender in it. The collar lasts for 30 days. I have also used a plug- in unit that releases calming pheromones called Comfort Zone made by Farnam. Another product that I have heard works very well is a product made by Dale Edgar Brand called Calm K9. This is a chewable nugget treat. All of these so-called solutions treat the symptoms of separation anxiety but not the cause. If we really want to fix separation anxiety, we need to understand its roots.

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Coyote pups content in their den waiting for Mom to return

5 years ago I had the pleasure of watching a litter of coyote pups being raised by their mother on my farm. The mother had made a den in my stonewall where some trees had fallen. One day I saw the mother leave the den to go out for a hunt. I took this opportunity to go down and look at what was inside. There, I found 6 small pups laying very quietly and contently waiting for their mother to return. About 2 hours later the mother coyote came back to her quiet babies. One month later I saw the Coyote mother in total distress, yipping and pacing around the den area. At first I did not understand what was wrong. I soon noticed that one of the pups was missing. After about 30 minutes the young pup returned and the mother finally calmed down. We can see similar behaviors with litters of puppies. When the mother leaves the whelping box, generally the pups will be calm and quiet (unless they are hungry) until the mother returns. Now, if you take a puppy away from the mother, we see her become very upset and anxious. Separation anxiety usually occurs when the dog views itself in charge of the comings and goings of its underlings. Here the dog views the owners as one of her own puppies. In these cases, the roles in the dog/human family need to change. The owners need to become the leaders of the family by becoming (and I hate this word) more “Dominant” in the Den. Things like winning elevated spaces (couches, beds and chairs), moving the dog by walking through the dog instead of around them, going first through doorways, upstairs and downstairs and starting and ending interactions such as play and petting all show you are dominant in the space. These are a few of the things that let your dog know that you are “in-charge”. When a dog is no longer in the decision-making process in the territory, the dog will start to relax when you are away.

Other things that you can do to help are making your comings and goings non-eventful. When you leave the house, don’t say, “Mommy is going away now but will be right back”.   Just walk out the door and say nothing.  One of the worst things you can do is a big greeting when you return home.  The dog becomes more anxious as it anticipates your very eventful homecoming.  So, when you come home, ignore your dog for the first 5 minutes or so until your dog is calm.

A dog with Separation anxiety needs a secure spot to rest and wait for the owners to return home. Often creating a den for the dog really helps in settling him in a new home or environment. Place the dog bed or dog crate in a room in which everyone hangs out.  The kitchen or family room is usually best. It is also important not to put crates or dog beds near the house entrances and doorways as this puts more pressure on the dog to be in charge of the comings and goings. Put dog beds and crates underneath things or in corners out of the way. Never put beds or crates in the middle of the room where the dog feels exposed. Making the den dark and comfortable always helps. If the dog tends to lie in the middle of the floor, gently move the dog using your feet.  In this way you are owning the territory. Soon your dog will realize that his bed or crate is his special place and he will seek out these comfortable spots when you leave the house.

Treating separation anxiety in this way has proven to be very successful for my clients over the years. It does not just treat the symptoms but instead goes right to the root of the problem…..







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